Rapid Fire Reviews: Catching Up!

I’m not even sure when I finished some of these reads and I have quite a little back log to chat about soooo settle in and lets catch up, shall we?

Note: These reviews are 100% my own opinion and may contain spoilers.

The Chaos of Longing by K Y Robinson
Galley provided by Andrews McMeel Publishing for review via NetGalley

This is a short book of poetry centered around the may emotions experienced in a relationship and holy crap was it good! First of all, I absolutely love that there was a dedicated trigger warning included. My favorites in this collection were 14, You’ll Get Used to Me, Certain Men, and Naked Thoughts.
Naked Thoughts was 100% in. my. head. So raw and emotional and relatable. I absolutely loved this.

Ink & Water or How I Kicked Anorexia’s Ass  by Lacy J Davis, Jim Kettner
Galley provided for review via NetGalley

Definitely an interesting presentation of struggling with anorexia and over exercising. I loved the little details like having actual heart eyes when she was falling for someone. Other than that, I don’t have many thoughts left on this one. Not bad by any means. Not as memorable as other reads of late.

Kiss My Tiara

This was 100% dated but also kind of hilarious. It’s a self-help style book about finding your inner kick ass goddess and I loved that concept but it did have a lot of negative commentary I didn’t think belonged in something claiming to be “self help.” It definitely made me laugh out loud and at points it does have an empowering effect on how to just own being a woman.

The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks

I finally read a Nicholas Sparks book! I had made a goal in August to read at least one of his books. He is my Mom’s absolute favorite author and she has constantly told me that I would like his books. Now I tried to read Two By Two, his most recent release, and it was incredibly boring. Also, the way it was laid out was annoying me. Some chapters would be in italics and others wouldn’t and I wasn’t sure what the point was and just found it to be super distracting.
Now! The Notebook I greatly enjoyed. One, it’s actually a fairly short read. Two, I loved that the edition we have had this whole Nicholas Sparks on Nicholas Sparks piece that gave some insight into his writing career in general and actual told more of the why behind The Notebook.
I have seen the movie (in addition to owning all of his books we also own all of the movie adaptations. We like collecting in this family.) and to be honest, though I love the cast, I never really loved the movie. Don’t get me wrong: it’s a nice enough sappy love story but I just never understood why it became evvvvvveryones go to. Personally, if we’re talking Nicholas Sparks movies, A Walk to Remember will take the cake every time for me, but I digress.
I liked the presentation of the story so much more in the book. Rather than starting with the someone is “sick” aspect, you get to just start in the story itself. I found it to be romantic on a higher level and even though I essentially knew what happened, I was still really enjoying every page. Oh! The end is also ambiguous rather than the finality of the movie ending.

I Love You, MIchael Collins by Lauren Barat-Logsted

Iiiiiii love this book! It is so adorable and the main character, a lovely little 10-year-old girl who just wants to talk to the least popular astronaut, is the best narrator you could have.
The book is written in letters from her to Michael Collins in the 60s when the US is about to launch people to the moon. If you’re unsure who Michael Collins is, he was the other guy with Buzz Aldrin and Neil Armstrong on that famous trip in which steps on the moon happened.
the story being told is one of a struggling but loving family and how the idea of space and the universe kind of took over everything at that time. I loved the way it was written and it felt like a child was telling the story. An incredibly smart child who is beyond her years, but a child just the same. I was sooooo distraught when her parents fought and kind of abandoned her momentarily. I was yelling at my book, “Who does that to a 10-year-old?” and I loved that she even states “But I’m 10! ” I just loved this book.
It’s a relatively new release and if you like middle grade reads, definitely go pick it up.

American Street by Ibi Zoboi

Five stars. All the stars. Read this. Right now.
If you find yourself sympathizing with immigrants who are being held up at airports or forced out of our country–read this. If you have even found yourself wondering how it must feel to come to our country and have to acclimate–read this. If you want to be heartbroken and inspired and lost in an excellent example of really good writing–read this. READ THIS>

The Truly Terrible Sweater My Grandmother Made For Me
The Yippy Yappy Yorkie in a Green Sweater
by Debbie Macomber

So! Since Mr. Sparks does not have a new release out currently, My Mom has been steadily working her way through Debbie Macomber’s catalog. She is currently in the midst of the Blossom Street series and guess what!? There were cure little picture books in there that take place in that little world. So I had to read them because I kind of love picture books. Plus, the illustrations on the Yorkie book were so freaking cute.
So. The sweater one, was for lack of a better word, dumb. It’s about a kid who gets a sweater from his grandmother he hates and all the ways he tries to get out of wearing it and then she says its special and poof he loves it. Eh. The illustrations weren’t great and the story was so overplayed.
The Yorkie book however! Adorable. The little puppy wears a sweater his owner made him (because knitting is an integral part of the Blossom Street series) and he loves to explore and he gets lost and they have to find him and he makes another cute little yorkie friend. It was just so cute and exactly the kind of story you love reading with kiddos. Plus the little puppies in sweaters were just cute overload.

13 Little Blue Envelopes
The Last Little Blue Envelope
by Maureen Johnson

I feel like I’ve read Maureen Johnson before but I can’t figure out where. I picked up these books because it was suggested to me through oh, four different platforms as something I’d like. The first book was great! It was an adventure and the letters were interesting. The whole book is about these letters that show up from a now deceased relative and heavily suggest taking a real adventure that involves traveling through Europe in order to get the next letter.
Think Adventure Race with blue letters.
I though this was a good read. It was fun and only slightly predictable. The romance wasn’t awful. I loved the twist with the Roommate in London.
The follow-up companion read was not at all as enjoyable. I read it to get to the end but it was lackluster in comparison to the first.

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl

I devoured Roald Dahl books when I was a kid. They were my absolute favorite. I’ve read Matilda several times. I loved the Witches and the Twits. I just remember falling in love with the quirky characters and slightly darker aspect in each book. I went into my library looking for The Witches and ended up leaving with a stack of Dahl, including Charlie and the Chocolate Factory.
Somehow, though I know the story, I had never actually read this book. It did not disappoint. It made me laugh, it made me wince. I loved the Oompa’s songs. It was a great as expected. I actually liked the ending much more than either film version.
I have to say, I attempted to read the sequel, Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator, but it had a different tone to it and I really was not enjoying it so I chose to end my adventures with Charlie with the first book.

 

There!! That is my insane catch up on reviews! If you have made it this far, thank you! Also, I have a question for you! I just watched The Zookeeper’s Wife and found it fascinating. Is the book worth a read as well? Meaning, will it tell me more?

 

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Bout of Books 20!

Bout of Books begins today! Here is where I shall update on my progress! 🙂 Yay readathon!

Day 1:

Challenge: Introduce yourself in six words

Stressed, Blessed, and list making obsessed.

Yeah, that’ll work. I have to return Nerve to my library today, so I will not be reading that this week. I am starting the readathon with a re-read of The Scarlet Letter by Nathaniel Hawthorne.

Day 2:
I chose not to read The Scarlet Letter again. I read all of the introduction things and found myself just not in the mood.

I also DNF Outline because it was just so many words without going anywhere.

I did listen to about 7 short stories courtesy of Masters of Fiction on Audible. Sinbad by Kurt Vonnegut was my favorite.

Day 3:
Picked up Nicholas Sparks (Finally!). I started Two by Two and understand why Mom loves him so much. His writing is easy to read and still entertaining and intriguing.

Day 4:
I went into my library and ended up distracted by a gorgeous book, The Bedlam Stacks, and started that right away.

Day 5:
OHMyGoodness! What a hella busy week it/s been. Finally Friday! I went to my happy place (the library) after work and got a stack of books I’m excited to dive into. I read a little of Two By Two and a little of The Bedlam Stacks so far.

I’ve been listening to The Butterfly Effect by Jon Ronson and it is crazy fascinating.

Now that it’s the weekend, albeit a busy one ( wedding and a birthday to celebrate), I should be able to get some more reading in. I just made myself a giant TBR for the month of September and I feel gooood about it. Plus, I am seriously enjoying audiobooks while rolling to my stores lately.

Day 6 & 7:

I completed The Butterfly Effect which was fantastic. It’s about the Porn industry but in a more behind the scenes how this little thing effected that little thing and so on.

I also listened to a whole mess of Podcasts but I honestly did not read much except to choose not to read a couple books.

So…TBR was reduced by my DNF books more than anything else. Ahhh well.

 

Bout of Books #20

Yup! Another readathon is coming up and right on time for my giant stack of “really want to read these in August” books!

New to Bout of Books? Here you go:

The Bout of Books read-a-thon is organized by Amanda Shofner and Kelly @ Reading the Paranormal. It is a week long read-a-thon that begins 12:01am Monday, August 21st and runs through Sunday, August 27th in whatever time zone you are in. Bout of Books is low-pressure. There are challenges, giveaways, and a grand prize, but all of these are completely optional. For all Bout of Books 20 information and updates, be sure to visit the Bout of Books blog. – From the Bout of Books team

Now! TBR time!

Let’s talk the week of the readathon first. This particular week is a happily busy one so I’d like very much to be relaxing with a book each day (in other words: PERFECT TIMING). It is what we merchandisers call “seasonal changeover” week. I am clearing out Graduation to put up Halloween! Woop Woop! This means I get a good amount of hours and I travel around most of the week,
This week also includes Dog Duty while the Sister takes the Niece off to see Mr. Shawn Mendez as a last hurrah before she starts her Sophomore year of High School (WHAT?!!!). So I shall be trapped in someone else’s home which usually means I get lost in books and tv while trading off chasing the pups with The Momma.
And! More book related, the 26th is turn in day for the Adult Reading Bingo at my local library. So, I havvvvvve to get some reading in!

SO! My TBR for this week and the rest of this month is as follows (Oh and totally a large list, I know) :

  • Kiss My Tiara by Susan Jane Gilman
  • The Scarlet Letter by Nathaniel Hawthorne (Re-read)
  • Outline by Rachel Cusk
  • H is for Hawk by Helen Macdonald
  • I Love You, Michael Collins
  • Certain Girls by Jennifer Weiner
  • Two by Two by Nicholas Sparks
  • A Walk to Remember by Nicholas Sparks

Not to mention I would like to read a couple e books because holy crap do I have a lot on my Kindle I haven’t actually read but was so excited to acquire.

So! there we go! Who else is bout of booksing next week? Goooood Luck!

August with Nicholas Sparks

Hello and Happy August!

This month, there is a theme to my reading. Mr. Nicholas Sparks!

Why do you ask? Well, here’s the thing. My Mom is quite the reader and she discovered Mr. Sparks way back when Message in a Bottle came out. She has read every, single book. She owns every movie adaptation. He is her absolute favorite.

Somehow. I have never read one of his books. I have seen all of the adaptations. Mom claims I will love his books. And since we do own them all. And it just so happens that August is Mom’s birthday month. I am going to read Nicholas Sparks for the month of August.

I’m not sure that I’ll only read him but I would like to attempt to read a few at the very least.

I am starting with Two by Two and A Walk to Remember.

Leave  a comment with which of his books you think I should pick up this month?

Sober

I absolutely love Buzzfeed. Most of the workouts that I do I find on You Tube. Both Tone It Up and Blogilates have You Tube pages, so when I finish up my routine, I’ll just pop through my subscriptions for a little break to bring my heart rate back down.

Today, I stumbled on My First 30 Days Sober and it was 100% relatable. Sometimes, Buzzfeed just hits the nail on the head, so to speak, and this was certainly one of those times.

Almost 3 years ago now, I did what this man did. I was stressed out and emotional and I was using alcohol to get me through it. I am also someone that due to stress, has vertigo and IBS. Both of these ailments increase with alcohol consumption (Note: if you get super dizzy and unbalanced when you drink–chances are you also have vertigo. Yay!).

I always enjoyed drinking. I rarely declined a drink when out with friends. It was my crutch to get through social situations. I spent most of my twenties drunk. Like really drunk. My tolerance was always pretty high (Mom says she was the same way) so I could drink 3 drinks and have a little bit of a buzz or I could have 6 and be what I deemed, “tipsy fantastic.”

First of all, at the time that I was drinking I made decent money but I have never been affluent. Drinking is friggin’ expensive if you actually know what you like. Me. I love top shelf tequila, whiskey, and Belvedere. And when I drank, if I was getting a refill, I tended to get the more expensive drinks after my first three were gone.

I am a dramatic drunk. I’m also a super funny drunk. That dramatic drunk. That one always bothered me.

Sober, I hate drama. I mean hate it. Have I caused it before? Of course I have. That doesn’t mean it’s enjoyable.

Drunk, I seemed to thrive on it. Especially if I was in a more emotional state than I cared to share before I started drinking.

Watching this video brought me right back. About three years ago, I went out to a restaurant with a friend to bitch about work. And about boys. And life in general. I drink 5 margaritas because the waitress loved us and just kept refilling. I got in my car and remember sitting there for more than 10 minutes because I suddenly remembered that I was an adult.

A living breathing adult who knows better than to drive right now.

So I sat until I felt less like I was tipsy. I rolled my windows down and took a deep breath. I dug out the Dramamine from my purse because my vertigo was kicking in. I felt my eyes well up when my stomach clenched. Just letting me know tomorrow was going to suck.

I drank half a bottle of water and then I drove the 10 minutes to my house from the restaurant. In that 10 minutes I decided that I needed to take a break.

Drinking wasn’t fun anymore. It made me feel worse and not better. I was trying to be healthier in general and hangovers impeded workouts. Not to mention, there is no nutritional value to hard liquor-my alcoholic beverage of choice.

The next day I was dizzy, cramping, and exhausted.

I spent my twenties drunk. Did I really need to spend my thirties that way too?

So I stopped. The next time I went out, I didn’t drink. The entire table stared. “WHAT?” That moment where his friends boo’d. I know what that feels like. When suddenly everyone stares at you like you’re insane because you don’t want a drink? Yup.

I went on vacation to see one of my best friends. When she went to the liquor store to pick up supplies for the party, I had to tell her that I wasn’t drinking anymore. It had been six weeks and I liked the clarity. That party was a testament to how incredibly awkward I am socially. But I did it. I was uncomfortable. I had no clue what to do with myself. And this was a group that knew me as someone that partied. But I did it.

Even now, when it comes up, people are still a little shocked that I don’t drink.

A lot ask me why and I simplify it by saying that is just wasn’t fun anymore.

That video. Those reasons he gave are 100% it.

Waking up doesn’t suck as much.

My face isn’t flush or puffy.

My body can show the definition of muscle when I’m working out.

I can work out longer (sometimes).

My vertigo is less constant.

I am less stressed.

I am able to process my emotions fully.

I feel better.

I’ll say that again.

I. Feel. Better.

I believe that I spent enough of my life drinking so I still don’t. I don’t intend to. It’s much like when I quit smoking. I’m just over it.

Good on Buzzfeed for capturing the clarity that making a decision to be sober, even just for 30 days, can give you.

Slump?

I have been trying to read ALL week.

I mean really trying.

Like sitting down with my book in my lap for a solid hour, trying.

Somehow, I have not finished one book though.

I read about 50 pages in Alexander Hamilton by Ron Chernow. Then I skipped around and decided I just couldn’t read this right now. However, I really do find Chernow’s writing style to be enchanting and inviting. I believe I will actually read that entire book someday but right now, I just can’t get into it the way I’d like to.

So! I picked up the next book from my latest library haul The Petticoat Affair. I sat with that for 4 hours yesterday. I read maybe 60 pages. To be honest, the actual synopsis- a historical and factual based book about Andrew Jackson’s run in the White House and more specifically about some crazy love triangle that essentially ruined his presidency-was far more interesting than the book itself.

I gave up on it.

Then I read 40 pages of The Wonder by Emma Donoghue. If the name sounds familiar, it’s because she was the author of Room. I have that one on my shelf and intend to pick it up after I get through this one. So far, at least this is keeping my interest.

The Wonder is about a child who is fasting but somehow in perfect health and the nurse who is sent to examine her. The nurse, Lib, is full on skeptical and thinks the child is totally faking. She’s so mean and blunt. The book has her train of thought as she is the narrator and she’s just super bitchy and determined to make a liar out of this beautiful, spiritual, innocent, little girl.

The fact that I can give you that much information about the book shows that I’m actually engaged. I’m just hoping I can push through this start of a reading slump and finish a book.

OH! I’ve also been inching along in The Paper Magician. I can’t decide if I like it or not. Currently, I don’t hate it but I’m not sure I’m quite following the world we’re in. So we’ll see.

Slump Be Gone!

 

 

 

Bout of Books: Wrap Up

Twitter chats were fantastic.

Challenges were fun.

I had a hefty goal and neglected to really make time to read and thus…I am still not done with the first book I picked up.

I am finishing it this evening since its due back and the library tomorrow and I have 30 pages left.

All in all, I like it!

I will certainly participate again in August!

Yoga Flow!

I started working out not when I was on an actual track team or when I was being bullied for being the larger of my adorably petite or naturally slender friends but when I was in college.

Instead of gaining weight when I went away to school, I lost 20 pounds in the first semester. I didn’t really see it but I did start showing off my assets. Instead of long skirts, I wore tiny skirts. Instead of mens wide leg pants (because JNCO) I wore juniors low rise (WHY WAS THAT A THING!?) jeans. Suddenly, I had curves and I was starting to like them.

So in an effort to balance my drinking and smoking, I started working out with my roommate. She had been quite an athlete in High School but lost it in college. The school I attended for my first two years of college had these 4 to 6 week fitness related activities you could sign up for. My roommate and I did all of them. First it was Hip Hop, then it was Salsa (my favorite by far), Pilates, some weird guide to weights,, and Yoga.

Between that and my constant walking due to not having a license or car until I was 20; I discovered moving my body was fun for me. I actually enjoyed it. Even more so when I could do it without anyone watching me. (That’s a whole insecurity thing for another day)

By our second semester of my sophomore year in college; my roommate and I had quite the falling out. So I drank and I worked out and attempted to get through my classes. I discovered the fun of Tae Bo and started doing that and some insane number of crunches during lunch so I wouldn’t be in the café the same time she was.

Because I was one hell of a chain smoker and drinking was a daily thing. I was working out with little results beyond my legs getting more sculpted. When I returned home from school, I continued with Tae Bo and added in Pilates.

I would workout for an hour on week days and then work my full time job. I stayed pretty much the same for a couple years and then Yoga.

I forgot how much I enjoyed the act of getting my body into Yoga poses. For me, it had the same effect as a long walk does; I could clear my head and move my body at the same time.

I stuck with Yoga being my main “thing” for a year or so. I quit smoking because I found that I was winded walking up stair cases and hacking during forward folds. Somehow, I lost the routine of working out and for a few years it was more sporadic then routine.

Then I did The Firm workout, The Zip Trainer workout, P90X made an appearance. I loved FIT TV and I’d tune in to that and use their daily workouts as mine.

I lost weight. I was suddenly feeling healthier and sometimes not so much due to a list of ailments brought on by stress.

In more recent years, Blogilates and Tone It Up have become my favorite workouts to tune into. YouTube is a fantastic resource and guess what, it’s free!

Don’t get me wrong, I spend money on my fitness. I love these two particular programs so much, I own water bottles from Blogilates and both of the books. I actually met Cassey Ho at a book signing years ago and she is just as lovely in person as she is in her videos.

Currently, I’m in the midst of Tone It Up’s 8 week Bikini Challenge. They do it every year to get you ready for summer. The structure they have seems to work for me lately so I’m down for whatever challenge they throw at me.

Last week, they added a Beautiful Yoga Flow and I’m loving it so much. It’s kind of my favorite. I did it for the second time today and I love that it feels so much like a strength workout while stretching out my body.

I am trying to get myself back into a real workout routine. At one point, I worked out six days a week and I was sleeping and generally happy.

So! In an effort to keep finding ways to reduce stress, I am getting in my workouts. If you are a yoga fan-click that link and try it out. It’s fast paced and 15 minutes long. It’s just such a nice flow. I find myself relaxing into it as it goes–the entire point of yoga typically.

I have a feeling the more I stick to things like reading, moving, and perhaps even cooking and baking; the more I’ll be here updating.

I like that feeling.

Bout of Books: Day 4

Did I read yesterday? Pretty sure I did. At least a little. Not much. Not much at all.

OY.

I WILL finish one book this week. I WILL!

I just renewed two of my library books and managed to acquire another when I was returning one of Mom’s.

Seriously! That woman has been blowing through books.

Tiny bit of background. My Mom is retired and yes, we live in the same home. A year or so ago, she went from being super independent and cheery to being despondent and in declining health.

Thanks to a never ending slew of tests, it was determined that her thyroid was not functioning which resulted in memory loss, depression, paranoia…need I go on?

Now! She is back to being cheery and silly. Still anxious and sometimes she is a bit of a homebody but! she is much better.

When she was sick or as I tend to put it “gone,” she suddenly hated reading. My mother, the woman that taught me to read when I was a baby and always had a book kicking around, hated reading. She was in this place where she rarely remembered the day of the week and found it incredibly difficult to read a book.

She loves Nicholas Sparks so when his new book came out this past year, I picked it up for her for Christmas. She was watching me read in the chair a couple months ago and said she needed a book to read. I reminded her about her new one and in three days, she had it done.

So I’ve been picking up books for her when I go to the library. And! She’s putting me to shame!

Which is awesome.

So yeah, I didn’t read all that much on Day 4 but, Mom started a new book.

Bout of Books: Day 3

I have the luxury of writing my own schedule for work (for the most part) due to it being an independent gig so I took yesterday off. Tuesday had been a long day due to my lack of sleep and I just felt better curled up with my book.

However, that whole lack of sleep for the last few days caught up to me and I ended up sleeping more than reading. I did get another 20 or so pages of Mindy Kailing’s lovely book read. I am really enjoying it too. I will definitely be checking out her other book as well. (Currently reading Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? She also has Why Not Me?)

I have a soft spot for comedic essay collections. Although! Sometimes, I get stuck in them. Example, I’ve been reading My Booky Wook by Russell Brand for, what?, 3 years now. I mean, I read a chapter and then push it aside for months on end. And I love him! Love him! But something about memoirs. It totally depends on my mood.

This one I think it’s more the I keep wanting to sleep causing me to not be through it yet and I am really enjoying it. So, I’m kind of doing that thing where you just read one part and then move on to something else.

I’m thinking I may actually do the thing I always say I’ll do on long work days: take breaks that last a chapter long. I mean, it is a readalong week and I really wanted to return some of these books rather than having to renew them.

Poor Hamilton, I had decided to focus on finishing Mindy and then losing myself in Hamilton again. And yet, it is at the bottom of a pile of notebooks.

The determination and interest I have in reading this giant book is amazing. Despite how slowly its going. Ron Chernow does one hell of a job writing history in a way that’s completely engaging.

So! I have not completed any books yet during this readathon. I did participate in two challenges ( I think) and I did read two magazines and a lot of blogs.

OH annnnd NetGalley seems to love me this month; I was approved for four more reads on there.

I need to figure out a system so I can utilize my library, read my own books, and get my NetGalley reads going. Help? Please. Any ideas?